9 Tips for Discussing Difficult Topics with Kids

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1. Start with Honesty

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2. Stay Calm and Composed

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3. Use Clear Language

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4. Listen Actively

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5. Be Patient

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6. Offer Reassurance

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7. Encourage Open Dialogue

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8. Adjust the Timing

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9. Follow Up Regularly

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