Written by: Aquib Nawab
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Parenting
When your child is being stubborn, take a deep breath and stay calm. Kids pick up on your mood, so remaining calm helps defuse the situation. It makes it easier for both of you to think clearly.
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Make sure your child knows what’s expected of them by setting simple and clear rules. Consistent, calm reminders help your child feel secure, knowing what’s okay and what’s not, leading to less resistance.
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Instead of making demands, give your child two choices that work for you. Offering them a sense of control over small decisions helps reduce defiance and makes them feel heard, encouraging cooperation.
Praise your child when they behave well, even in small ways. Complimenting them with “Great job listening” builds their confidence. Recognizing their good choices motivates them to continue behaving positively.
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Children learn by watching you. Show calmness, respect, and patience, even in tough moments. By modeling these behaviors, your child will likely copy them and handle challenges more calmly and respectfully.
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Not everything is worth fighting about. Let small things slide, like mismatched socks or choosing what to eat. By focusing on important issues, you teach your child how to make compromises without constant conflict.
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Time-outs give your child a moment to calm down and think. It’s not about punishment but about giving them space to collect their emotions. Afterward, discuss the situation so they understand and learn from it.
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Kids thrive on predictability. If you set rules, stick to them each day. When your child knows what to expect, they feel secure, and stubborn behavior lessens. Consistency creates a sense of trust and stability.
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