9 Ways to Maintain Your Identity While Being a Parent

Written by:  Aquib Nawab

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At least 30 minutes a day, dedicate to something you like to do, such as journaling, walking or meditation. This alone time is for you to relax, recharge your batteries, and get in touch with your inner life.

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1. Take Time for Yourself

Continue hobbies like painting, writing, or gardening. These activities keep your passions alive and remind you that your identity is not limited to being a parent but includes your unique interests.

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2. Keep Your Hobbies Alive

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Communicate openly with your family about needing quiet time or space for yourself. Establishing boundaries helps you maintain your individuality and ensures your needs are met without feeling selfish.

3. Set Personal Space Rules

Ensure you spend time with your friends, go out for coffee, talk on the phone, or send them text messages. Friends are a source of support, entertainment and normalcy in the absence of a baby.

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4. Stay Close to Friends

Take care of yourself and be healthy through exercising or eating healthy or applying makeup. The way you care for your body and your mind leaves you feeling prepared and in control of life.

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5. Look After Yourself

Work on professional or freelancing projects or your own projects that are exciting you. You will be productive and inspired, which retains your nudge and makes you remember what you are good at.

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6. Do Work You Like

Put your spouse or family members on the parenting team – whether it’s cooking, cleaning, or playing with the kids. Shared work allows you to take a rest, recharge and spend time doing things that feel good.

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7. Share Parenting Tasks

8. Learn New Things

Have a new hobby, take an online class, go to workshops. This is not just because it trains your brain, but because it brings energy and new experiences into your life outside of childrearing.

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Make yourself feel good about it by wearing outfits that you are comfortable in. Dressing as you are also personable — makes you feel unique and boosts your self-confidence.

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9. Wear What You Love

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