How to Mend a Friendship After a Big Fight

[{"selector":"#anim-6c82db18-7ce1-4f33-86e0-c6ab364d925e","keyframes":{"opacity":[0,1]},"delay":700,"duration":3000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] [{"selector":"#anim-72336c29-bd51-4eda-8d6c-1090ec622e9b","keyframes":{"transform":["rotate(-270deg) translate3d(0px, 4824.78608%, 0) rotate(270deg)","rotate(-270deg) translate3d(0px, 0px, 0) rotate(270deg)"]},"delay":700,"duration":3000,"easing":"cubic-bezier(0.2, 0.6, 0.0, 1)","fill":"both"}] Written by: Aquib Nawab Credits: FLUX-schnell Friendship

1. Give Space, But Stay Present

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2. Self-Reflection is Essential

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3. Choose the Right Moment

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4. Lead with Empathy

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5. Own Your Mistakes Fully

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6. Listen Without Defense

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7. Create a Path Forward

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8. Rebuild Trust Gradually

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9. Share Positive Memories

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10. Learn and Grow Together

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