10 Signs You’re the Toxic Friend (And How to Change)

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1. Constant Criticism Crusher

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2. The Attention Monopolizer

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3. Drama Magnet Mayhem

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4. The Flaky Time-Waster

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5. Emotional Vampire Alert

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6. The Jealous Saboteur

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7. Boundary Breaker Beware

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8. The Competitive Scorekeeper

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9. Conditional Support System

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10. The Unapologetic Offender

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