Written by: Aquib Nawab
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Friendship
Setting boundaries from the start helps avoid emotional burnout. It lets your friend know how much time and energy you can offer while ensuring you maintain your own mental and emotional well-being.
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Instead of jumping in with solutions, sometimes it's enough to just listen and offer empathy. Many people simply need to be heard, not fixed. Let your friend vent, and only offer advice when asked.
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Supporting others can be draining if you’re not careful. Regularly check in with your own emotional state to ensure you’re not overextending yourself for someone else. You matter just as much as they do.
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Being supportive doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything. Offer constructive feedback when needed, but do so gently and with kindness. This allows for growth without damaging the relationship.
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It’s easy to fall into the role of a rescuer, but true support encourages independence. Remind your friend of their own strength and ability to handle challenges, while being there if they need you.
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When you’re offering support, make sure you’re mentally and emotionally present. However, if the friendship starts to feel draining or one-sided, it’s okay to step back and preserve your own energy.
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Never ignore your own needs in the name of helping someone else. Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. A healthy, supportive friend is one who knows how to care for themselves.
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Support isn’t just about being there during tough times. Make sure to celebrate your friend’s achievements and happy moments as well. Sharing in their joy strengthens the bond and keeps things balanced.
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If you’re feeling overwhelmed or drained, don’t be afraid to communicate your feelings. A true friend will understand and appreciate your honesty. Open communication helps maintain a healthy dynamic.
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Sometimes the best way to support someone is by stepping back and giving them space to grow. Recognize when your involvement is no longer helpful and when it’s time to let them take the lead.
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